Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Feet....

Maggie will do ANYTHING to get out of sleeping. It doesn't matter how tired she is (or how tired I am), she doesn't want to sleep. Yesterday might be the best excuse she's ever come up with.... After her nap she said, "Mom, look how much my feet grew while I was sleeping." I looked at her feet and agreed with her that they looked bigger. Then she said, "I better quit taking naps, because my shoes are going to get too small. Okay?" and she looked at me for an answer. A REAL answer. She couldn't believe when I didn't agree with her. I have to give her points for creativity on that one.

HaHaHaHaHaHa....I've got baby Chocolate Milk!!!

They play "together" sometimes, usually that just means in the
same space or fighting over the same toy, but this was the first time
I ever really felt like I caught them playing together. Grace was doing
the dishes and Maggie was ironing???  

"Mom, my hair is a mess, quit blogging and brush it already."
Last night Arnie participated in the second and final School Board Forum before the primary (next Tuesday). He did great. He's got lots of great people, organizations and business on his side. It's obvious that change is necessary around here and I'm proud of him for taking this on. Though after sitting through a couple of these forums and hearing all the chatter, I'm really glad it's him not me. It's hard for me not to take things personally and I don't do a good job "playing nice". When you live in a small community you run into people everywhere. I have a hard time believing you could call my husband a bully in the paper last week and then greet me with a smile a hug 2 days later... Thankfully Arnie is much more diplomatic. I'll just be his quiet campaign manager....

Monday, May 7, 2012

No pictures...

I haven't taken many pictures in the last few days. I'm not sure what's up. Our whole house is in a bit of a funk...we all need to snap out of it. Maybe it's the full moon....

Grace is getting another HUGE tooth. Her teeth are coming in in a very strange order, she's got big gaps on both sides in the bottom and now she's getting maybe her eye teeth, I don't know. They seem gigantic, and she's not happy about it.

Maggie's been in a funk too. I don't know what's going on with her. I know I just need to have patience but she's really testing me. Yesterday there was a kid party at church, Maggie said she'd like to go, so we went. They had several big inflatables, bounce houses, slides, etc...she was really excited when we walked in, and the next thing I know she was crying. She was scared, she didn't want the big kids to jump on her, she didn't like the guys in the inflatable sumo wrestler suits, etc, etc, etc..... After about 25 minutes, I took her home. Every time she tried something new, she started bawling and she didn't want to be there. Then this morning when Arnie took her to school she did the same thing....cried all the way there, and he had to leave her a bawling mess with one of the teachers. By the time I got there to pick her up she seemed to be better, but she's definitely not herself. I don't know why I get so frustrated with her, but the whole situation just really irritates me. I don't know what we're doing wrong or what else we could be doing to make her feel more confident, less nervous. I hope it's just a phase. I hope we're doing the right thing, I just want her to be self-assured, confident and happy. What the heck??

2 crabby kids leads to 2 exhausted and maybe even a little crabby parents. Hopefully we'll all bounce back soon. Maybe I'll start by picking up my camera....

Sunday, May 6, 2012

One more sign....

Maggie didn't want to be the only house in town without a "daddy sign"...





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Saturday, May 5, 2012

the more the merryier (or crazier)....

Thursday afternoon, my friend Jen called looking for someone to take her kids on Friday...3 more kids, what the heck :)

We had the BEST day! When I said yes, I was planning on having a sitter watch all the kids in the morning while I worked (she has 7 siblings, I knew she'd be up for the challenge), but she called at 6am on Friday with the flu! So, I rescheduled my shoot and got to hang out and play, play, play! Maggie was SAD that her friends were going to be here while she was at school so we let her play hookie.

Lauren, would you like a pancake....

....delicious.
We took a stroll to see our friends....come to think of it, I might be the only one who actually walked...
Do you think they could eat us?

If you ever need a ride-on toy, get the John Deere, the thing sure takes
a beating and keeps on running.


2 little divas (and their baby) at the "grocery store".

Jarrett convinced them to quit playing store and
play baseball, that lasted about 45 seconds.

Lunch time.....Did you know it's possible for 3 kids to each come up
with a completely different way to have you cut their hot dog?

This was the only time all day that Lauren and Gracie both SCREAMED
at the same time, I couldn't get them to stop (come to find out Lauren was
allergic to the sunscreen I put all over her)....

....it took me a minute but I came up with a solution.
 It might only be the first week of May, but it was HOT, so we drug out the water slide....



This is either the laziest or most creative way I've ever seen anyone
play basketball.....maybe both!

A little relaxing for the girls (again, it lasted about 10 seconds.)


After bottles and a nap the little girls were in better shape.

"Come on Gracie, you can get the baby gate open for us, figure out this lock
puzzle!! Then we can break out of the house and use the water slide with the big kids."
I won't be starting a daycare anytime soon, but I hope that's not the last time we have a few extra kids around here. The kids loved having friends for a whole day and everyone had someone to keep them busy so it really was way less work for me then I anticipated. Maggie already asked if they're coming back on Monday :)


Gracie really wants.....

...to do a somersault like Maggie.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWzSdSW8sBM

We'll have to keep working on it :)

PS- have you ever written the word somersault? It's a strange name for a flip on the floor....I googled it because I had no idea how to spell it.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

May Day....

Mom and Maggie worked on some May baskets Tuesday afternoon. Mom let Maggie use the spray paint....add it to the list of reasons kids need grandmas.


They're off to deliver....
Maggie told me she was going to hide and NOT giggle so
she wouldn't get caught. I think she got caught :)

Tuesday evening Maggie schooled Vadim and Kalle in baskeball.....
....then she went to play with the kids who live next door to my parents. I'm peeking out my mom and dad's bedroom window in this pictures. It's the first time I've ever let her go play without a grown-up. I know she was just next door and there were several big kids there to keep an eye on her, but still it's a big deal. I didn't want her to think I was checking on her, so when I couldn't hear her laughing I went upstairs to peek. She's growing up so fast!
 Gracie's working on her music skills....

Go Dad!

Arnie had his first forum of the election on Monday night. Maggie wanted to wish him luck so she made him a cookie....
"go DAD"
Arnie did great. He made us proud, but we knew he would....
Here is the text of an article from the Norfolk Daily News on Tuesday.....

Candidates for Norfolk board of education take part in forum

By ANDREA LARSON
alarson@norfolkdailynews.com | Posted: Tuesday, May 1, 2012 9:58 am

Six candidates hoping to be elected — or re-elected — to the Norfolk Public Schools board of education shared their views Monday night at a candidates forum at the city council chambers.
Incumbents Clark Froehlich, Joel Carlson and Alfredo Ramirez sat alongside school board hopefuls Arnie Robinson, Bob Waite and Sandy Wolfe. A seventh candidate, Troy Brooks, was unable to attend because he was traveling for business. Brad Hughes of WJAG Radio in Norfolk moderated.
In the May 15 primary, the top six vote-getters will advance to the November election.

The first question of the night dealt with a topic that is frequently discussed at school board meetings — 21st century learning. Candidates were asked to give their definition of 21st century skills as well as some specifics on how to bring the application of these skills to the district.

Carlson said, “When people first think 21st century skills, they think of technology. Technology is just a tool; what’s more important is how you use the tool and how you collaborate with others. What we’re seeing now in our modern society with the advent of the world wide web and worldwide business is nations like China and others that are kind of advancing seemingly faster than we are. We need to catch up and think ahead of them.”

Robinson said he believes a 21st century education needs “to start with the basics that education has always started with — it needs to have math skills, it needs to have reading skills, it needs to have writing and communication skills. All those things need to be facilitated with the technology we have available today.”

Waite was in agreement with Robinson, adding that student test scores troubled him.

“Twenty-first century learning is exactly that it is the basics — reading, writing, arithmetic and communication,” Waite said. “There needs to be a fine balance between the machines that we purchase to assist kids in learning and getting them into the 21st century and actually having them learn how to use the thing.”

Froehlich, the current school board president, said he agreed partly with Waite, but took things a step further.

“We need to change the way that we teach (the basics) to the students. Today’s students are into technology; we can’t teach it the same old way that I was taught,” Froehlich said. “That’s probably the biggest difference with 21st century learning. You need to be creative and get the students excited.”

Ramirez said 21st century learning presents some incredible opportunities for students. He agreed that the technological tools were important, but not the crux of the issue.

“I think it’s about the possibility of being able to expand the mind more than it ever has involving critical thinking. When you talk about critical thinking, then the teaching of math, reading and writing is going to come into it no matter what. . . . The critical thinking has taken us beyond what we’ve ever imagined in regard to what we can learn,” Ramirez said.

Wolfe said she was in agreement with the critical thinking aspect being integral to 21st century skills.
“As far as the engagement of our students with the teachers and the technology they have available, because this is their world and it’s going to be a world of technology,” so students must learn how to use it in order to get jobs, Wolfe said. “I think sometimes you have to push it and try something new.”
The candidates also were asked about the recent budget cuts made in the district and the impact on agriculture education and the Norfolk FFA chapter. Candidates were asked if they agreed with the actions taken by the district, and if not, what they would do differently.

Robinson said he understands that budget cuts are a way of life, and they are being made in all sectors of society at this time. “As you look specifically at the ag education issue, I think it’s important that Norfolk maintain an ag education department and Norfolk FFA. . . . If you look around our area, we are in the hotbed of agriculture. . . . I think we need to find a way to preserve that program and the other programs in the district,” Robinson said.

Waite said the reality of the situation is that the district has little to no money and is likely to have even less state aid next year.

“The fact is, we need to do as much as we can to keep education a priority. In this agricultural economy we have, it would seem to me that ag education is an important component of the school system,” Waite said. His solution would be to make budget cuts an open process in which the community gets involved in order to help the board of education decide what is important, he said.
Froehlich said more budget cuts do appear to be on the way for the Norfolk school district. He said another $900,000 is expected to be cut from state aid alone, and over 10 percent of the district’s revenue has been lost in the past two years.

“There’s been a lot of miscommunication and misinformation out there about cutting the ag department. We have not cut ag education. We have chosen instead to co-op with Stanton,” Froehlich said.

He said FFA is still available to Norfolk students as are ag classes. “The only difference is that the teacher is in Stanton.”

Ramirez pointed out that members of the public who do not like the cuts being made should attend the school board meetings.

“The only way you know how these decisions are made is to attend school board meetings. Part of my sense of self, very important to me, is transparency. I don’t put up with a lack of transparency in the board,” he said.

Wolfe said she thought it was sad that the Norfolk FFA had to become part of a co-op program. “I do think it is important to the kids that it says ‘Norfolk’ on their (FFA) jacket versus ‘Stanton.’ . . . I do think that budget cuts are difficult,” she said, adding that that the cuts should be kept as far away from the students as possible.

Carlson mentioned his background in agriculture, including that he grew up on a farm and participated in 4-H.

“I understand that this is a very important issue. . . . Ag education is still there,” Carlson said. He said science teachers are now teaching some of the ag courses, and the district is involved in an ag academy with Northeast Community College in order to offer dual-credits to students. There is hope that a currently employed teacher will get an ag license in order to be an FFA sponsor next year, he said.

An audience member asked the candidates how they would work as a team with all parties at the Norfolk Public Schools to make education a top priority for students.

Waite said he would work to build trust. “There needs to be trust between the community and the board of education and between the board, the superintendent and the administrative staff and between them and the teachers,” Waite said.

Waite said he would recommend the second monthly board meeting be held in the evening so staff and the public could attend, and that the focus at those meetings be curriculum and personnel issues.
Froehlich said board members already work to promote a unified front on issues.

“There’s six individuals that sit on the board, and we operate as individuals,” Froehlich said. While board members may have differing opinions, they try to build a consensus for a unified board. That’s done through operating principals which are reviewed on an annual basis, he said.

Ramirez said being a team player is the only way to be a school board member. “There’s no other way to work other than a team. . . . This is the most cohesive board that I’ve ever seen in terms of how we make decisions,” Ramirez said.

Wolfe said she thinks it’s important for board members to listen to community members and teachers in order to take those issues to the board meetings.

“I believe each person on the board has their own voice, but I think one person can make a difference,” Wolfe said.

Carlson said working on tough issues is part of the job, but board members can set aside their differences.

“Sometimes as a board, that’s what we have to do — debate, discuss, sometimes argue a little bit,” said Carlson, adding that board members must remember that they have to think of the students first.
Robinson said he thinks board issues should go beyond the board room.

“Transparency goes through open communication and open debate. . . . I think a good, healthy, public debate is good for our system, good for our students, good for our teachers,” Robinson said.